tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post7659221359328807484..comments2023-06-05T09:22:52.912+01:00Comments on Please Don't Eat With Your Mouth Open: Things Mothers Say in ArgumentsPlease Don't Eat With Your Mouth Openhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09246896544080806179noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-5807770028388819912011-08-04T22:08:51.375+01:002011-08-04T22:08:51.375+01:00Yowza.
I'd like to second what Punctuation sa...Yowza.<br /><br />I'd like to second what Punctuation says, and also add this:<br /><br />Read my final statement. This isn't about mother bashing. It's not disrespecting anyone who's lost their mum. It's me being 26, and acknowledging that when I'm a mother myself I'll probably know exactly what my mother is on about when she says these things.<br /><br />This is a personal blog. Are you saying that if I have an argument with my mother, I'm not allowed to blog about it in case someone who's reading has lost a parent and I come across as not realising how lucky I am?<br /><br />Do you ever say you hate your job? Well, please don't. Because I'm unemployed, and you'll look back one day and realise how ungrateful and petulant you sound.<br /><br />See how ridiculous that is?<br /><br />In fact, you know what? I'll read this blog back in 20 years and go "God, I wish I had time to sit down and blog like this. But I don't, because I have to clean up after my ungrateful kids. No one ELSE is going to do it"Please Don't Eat With Your Mouth Openhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09246896544080806179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-82732739113420963982011-08-04T18:43:32.955+01:002011-08-04T18:43:32.955+01:00"judgement skulker" - for the win!
I..."judgement skulker" - for the win!<br /><br />I'm not going to scribble on Jo's blog - it's a bit rude - just going to say I think the vast majority of us understood the tone of the original post.modelofamodernmajorgeneralhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06523876150351164893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-12375532149042030362011-08-04T17:59:17.277+01:002011-08-04T17:59:17.277+01:00@Anonymous - I don't sound childish or petulan...@Anonymous - I don't sound childish or petulant so saying "you all sound" is a bit of a generalization isn't it?<br /><br />Apart from me - nobody has said "and because of this I hate my parents and wish they were dead" (incidentally I don't hate either of my parents either, everybody has the right to be human).<br /><br />You're linking, anonymously "to protect your husband's identity" the light-hearted comments about daft sayings of parents with the fact your husband's mother died. MAJOR GUILT TRIP emotional blackmail.<br /><br />It's a light-hearted blog about parents saying annoying things - not a denigrating slight on your husband's dead mother and to suggest otherwise is ridiculous. It made me think back about my childhood and realize that I didn't really get that kind of commentary from my mother (although my dad did and does come out with some classics) - but that doesn't mean that anyone else is being "childish and petulant" you judgmental skulker.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-68323232489064458172011-08-04T17:45:17.855+01:002011-08-04T17:45:17.855+01:00I'm not being deliberately horrible (honestly)...I'm not being deliberately horrible (honestly), but you'll look back on this post in two decades and realise how childish, petulant and ungrateful you sound. My husband's mum died when he was 20 and he would LOVE to have her around to say all those things to him. [Anonymous to protect his privacy, not me getting flamed.]Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-1472603174791932352011-08-04T16:14:50.946+01:002011-08-04T16:14:50.946+01:00Oh I almost forgot the best one I ever got "Y...Oh I almost forgot the best one I ever got "You know your birthday is not just about you, I went through a lot that day, so it should be as much about me" - I nearly fell off my chair with that one.Paper-Rock-Scissorshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02928820790936394694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-66857147156875620282011-08-04T16:13:34.733+01:002011-08-04T16:13:34.733+01:00This is so enlightening, I never knew all mothers ...This is so enlightening, I never knew all mothers say those things. My sister and I used to also get "I wish I'd had boys" in response to bringing our boyfriends round who would of course be on their best behaviour. We would just roll our eyes across the dinner table at each other and say.."so do we mother, so do we."Paper-Rock-Scissorshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02928820790936394694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-16169876398857950252011-08-04T15:53:16.317+01:002011-08-04T15:53:16.317+01:00I have to say all the quotes here make your parent...I have to say all the quotes here make your parents sound like a right bunch of gits.<br /><br />My mother decided to walk out when I was eleven years-old. It would have been nice if she'd taken the time to mention that and ask if my sister and I wanted to go with her. Apparently it slipped her mind or, like so many, she put herself first - after that's what you're supposed to do, right?<br /><br />Two years later I came home from school to find my sister gone with a note to say mum had come to collect her (secretly) whilst I was at school and she was off to live with her. Nobody asked me if I wanted to come too. Someone had to look after my father who was in the clutches of alcoholism at the time. He's better now - in the sense that it does not rule his life although it cost him a later marriage before he got his head around it.<br /><br />My father always used to say "because I told you to" whenever he gave me some order or other which I questioned. I never say that to my daughter. I also checked the list of things here and I don't say any of them either. I'm not sure if it makes me a good parent - but I'm not as crap as many that prove the point that the required skill level to *become* a parent is much lower than the level required to be any damn good at it.<br /><br />All true...unfortunately.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-43680777135083840722011-08-04T15:24:54.059+01:002011-08-04T15:24:54.059+01:00I wish — I WISH — my mum would say things like thi...I wish — I WISH — my mum would say things like this to me.<br /><br />Instead she goes into a deadly quiet silence that lasts for two or three days. We know from experience that saying or doing the wrong thing will cause a massive explosion akin to Eyjafjallajoekull last year. However, we don't know what this wrong thing is. It could be leaving a pan on the side, or it could be asking her what she wants for dinner.<br /><br />Either way, it's terrifying. Completely and utterlyAmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02221641004251160337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-48051619686303936252011-08-04T13:10:27.154+01:002011-08-04T13:10:27.154+01:00My mum moved out when I was sixteen. I hadn't ...My mum moved out when I was sixteen. I hadn't spoken to her for a tear before that. That was 24 years ago. My dad and I had a really strong bond; no arguments at all, just wise words of wisdom which I listened to (Most, many years after he said them I admit but there you go...)<br /><br />I'm glad I missed out on all of this crap.AFC 30Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11008242104045918716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-46767317432060178012011-08-04T10:20:07.547+01:002011-08-04T10:20:07.547+01:00My gran still says many of these things to my mum....My gran still says many of these things to my mum.....modelofamodernmajorgeneralhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06523876150351164893noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-58666844953447730512011-08-04T06:46:15.104+01:002011-08-04T06:46:15.104+01:00I was in labour for 40 hours to give birth to you....I was in labour for 40 hours to give birth to you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-26988448577030672882011-08-04T05:20:46.676+01:002011-08-04T05:20:46.676+01:00Mothers! I'm totally stealing the "you ne...Mothers! I'm totally stealing the "you need to grow up and settle down"- whole post office thing. Love it!Breezahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13475260956777868266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-79014019056869903592011-08-04T03:28:20.927+01:002011-08-04T03:28:20.927+01:00"You treat this place like a hotel" - th..."You treat this place like a hotel" - this was my mother's basis for kicking me out at 18. <br /><br />She has since mysteriously forgotten the whole thing.Sprinkled Words (former Miss Milk)https://www.blogger.com/profile/10490666010640657826noreply@blogger.com