tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post552698807303051170..comments2023-06-05T09:22:52.912+01:00Comments on Please Don't Eat With Your Mouth Open: "When I get to Warwick Avenue, meet me by the entrance of the tube"Please Don't Eat With Your Mouth Openhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09246896544080806179noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-80864428439643305082008-11-02T15:15:00.000+00:002008-11-02T15:15:00.000+00:00fwenge - clearly. warwick ave, harlem...same diffe...fwenge - clearly. warwick ave, harlem...same difference, right? Fatboy slim did it with Primrose Hill too.<BR/><BR/>clarissa - Ah! I'll miss the hood :(<BR/><BR/>emsbabee - I think our break was a blessing in disguise although it didn't feel like it at the time. It made me realise so many things and made me ok with the decision he'd probably already come to.<BR/>email's in the sidebar if you fancy a chin wag or note swapping! pleasesendmesomelove@googlemail.comPlease Don't Eat With Your Mouth Openhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09246896544080806179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-76677151375232525482008-11-01T23:03:00.000+00:002008-11-01T23:03:00.000+00:00Your situation sounds very similar to mine.We also...Your situation sounds very similar to mine.<BR/><BR/>We also took a break, only he had made the decision in less than week.<BR/><BR/>IT. SUCKS. Loved the article though.<BR/><BR/>We should talk...Emsbabeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13826836772486218339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-89544416637182642592008-10-30T22:27:00.000+00:002008-10-30T22:27:00.000+00:00Big hug. Mchwa. I'll miss thinking of you visiti...Big hug. Mchwa. I'll miss thinking of you visiting my 'hood.Clarissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03310970914797007509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-20622846220550863982008-10-29T18:56:00.000+00:002008-10-29T18:56:00.000+00:00I've been saying for donkeys that people should wa...I've been saying for donkeys that people should wallow and enjoy their self pity. <BR/><BR/>As for Duffy's song about Warwick Avenue. <I>Warwick Avenue</I>? In song? And a soul one at that? Where the fuck does she think she is, namechecking destinations? Harlem?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-44472770473133421192008-10-29T16:15:00.000+00:002008-10-29T16:15:00.000+00:00mjohnson - you're right, when you consider the...mjohnson - you're right, when you consider the real reasons for someone 'tying up your heartstrings', it never comes down to anything apart from the way they make you feel. Which is all brain chemistry. An interesting, if slightly detatched way of looking at things.<BR/><BR/>perpetual - You're right. The most painful breakups are the ones where one person is hurting more than the other. <BR/><BR/>m.o.t - It's a real shame and I am feeling so sad about it, but I'm glad we both cared enough about each other to want what's best.<BR/><BR/>Hannah - I can never turn down a G&T! Thank you for the offer.<BR/><BR/>rosie - I think it's the time of year. I know a few couples who have broken up / having a rocky patch at the moment. I am most sad in the mornings, but by the end of the day (and by keeping busy) it's getting easier.<BR/><BR/>Robbie, so do I. Although I'm happy to wait a while for it.<BR/><BR/>James - Being rational about things has certainly helped.<BR/><BR/>blueskies - There's a gap where he was but I'm trying to be positive. <BR/><BR/>Blue - You hit the nail on the head with that comment, "So many couples stay in there to the bitter end and lose the friendship on which their relationship is based." - that makes so much sense to me right now.<BR/><BR/>Michael - Oh don't you worry, I still have the occasional hate filled post. My advice? Don't keep up the hate too much. Whinge, moan, but then have a laugh. I don't think I'd have all these people advising me on my relationship problems if all I did was spew anger all day. Saying that, check out 'I Hate The Earth' in my blogroll, he manages it ;)<BR/><BR/>PJB - girly nights, alcohol and steering well clear of men for a while is the order of the day...Please Don't Eat With Your Mouth Openhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09246896544080806179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-81030679211574091912008-10-29T14:38:00.000+00:002008-10-29T14:38:00.000+00:00I'm glad you seem to have come to turms with it of...I'm glad you seem to have come to turms with it of sorts, it helps. Now out to get drunk! :)pink jellybabyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08909985838604989915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-49864316985801051612008-10-29T14:28:00.000+00:002008-10-29T14:28:00.000+00:00Had to dig through your archives to find posts abo...Had to dig through your archives to find posts about your original concept 'cause it's quite similar to mine.<BR/><BR/>"Blokes who feel it is absolutely necessary to pinch your arse to get your attention in a club"<BR/><BR/>Hahaha.<BR/><BR/>Any tips for keeping up the hate (the concept of my blog)?Michaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00403119049496095966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-88348315298012174872008-10-29T09:25:00.000+00:002008-10-29T09:25:00.000+00:00Oh Jo, I am so sorry to read this. I suppose as yo...Oh Jo, I am so sorry to read this. I suppose as you have said and other commenters have agreed, the fact that you have parted on good terms is the thing to hang on to. So many couples stay in there to the bitter end and lose the friendship on which their relationship is based.<BR/><BR/>Beautifully put. Autumn is a lovely time to be single though. Long walks in the cold while you sort your mind out will do wonders xxSouphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12289911480898794581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-63209583856474225252008-10-29T09:13:00.000+00:002008-10-29T09:13:00.000+00:00you sound like you're doing well; i hope thats the...you sound like you're doing well; i hope thats the case. big hugsblueskies2dayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06906067194295461991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-62407590800781707562008-10-29T09:06:00.000+00:002008-10-29T09:06:00.000+00:00Awww shucks. Nice post though, and it does sound ...Awww shucks. Nice post though, and it does sound you already know it was the right thing to do. At least it wasn't some horrible argumentative bitter break-up. Well done to you both for being so mature and considerate about it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-79853985886796780842008-10-29T08:22:00.000+00:002008-10-29T08:22:00.000+00:00Sorry to hear that Jo.Hope you get your sunset soo...Sorry to hear that Jo.<BR/>Hope you get your sunset soon.Robbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07746692668880855217noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-22252015662458170112008-10-28T23:35:00.000+00:002008-10-28T23:35:00.000+00:00Oh dear, everybody seems to be breaking up at the ...Oh dear, everybody seems to be breaking up at the moment! I'd love to show them all that article...<BR/><BR/>"even though we'd both separately come to the same conclusion over the last 2 weeks as to what we wanted" ...sounds slightly optimistic with regards to recovery time? So hopefully you won't be the cause of a Ben & Jerry's shortage?!rosiewishes.https://www.blogger.com/profile/01479173759145238692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-71077156872347018832008-10-28T22:32:00.000+00:002008-10-28T22:32:00.000+00:00Urgh. Been there. It's unreasonably painful.Ho...Urgh. Been there. It's unreasonably painful.<BR/><BR/>Hope you're okay. If you need a g&t, you've got my email.<BR/><BR/>HxBlondehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04949311774305277801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-14206551060060757202008-10-28T22:09:00.000+00:002008-10-28T22:09:00.000+00:00Really sorry to hear this Jo, but glad that the pa...Really sorry to hear this Jo, but glad that the parting of the ways was amicable to say the least.Mouldy-Old-Tartlethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13038284679875424873noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-29296821939688952582008-10-28T17:19:00.000+00:002008-10-28T17:19:00.000+00:00It is good that things worked out amicably. I am s...It is good that things worked out amicably. I am sorry though, it is never good when relationships end.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-33295043702058756182008-10-28T17:07:00.000+00:002008-10-28T17:07:00.000+00:00Good find Jo. Love’s ever so intangible, probably ...Good find Jo. Love’s ever so intangible, probably all hormones, pheromones, brain chemistry and the like, totally irrational.<BR/><BR/>Hardly surprising half the world practice arranged marriages. Why let such a primeval mechanism make the most important decision in your life? I suspect the answer to that question is, because we don’t have much choice. <BR/><BR/>Hope you come out the other end of the misery ride soon; for the sake of the world’s single men if no one else.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-87492606502076431632008-10-28T16:24:00.000+00:002008-10-28T16:24:00.000+00:00Thanks you lot. The rest of the article ishereThanks you lot. The rest of the article is<BR/><A HREF="http://lifeandhealth.guardian.co.uk/relationships/story/0,,2287405,00.html" REL="nofollow">here</A>Please Don't Eat With Your Mouth Openhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09246896544080806179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-91879153309474369592008-10-28T15:51:00.000+00:002008-10-28T15:51:00.000+00:00It was a great article.I'm sorry for you guys, I r...It was a great article.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry for you guys, I really am. xElaine Denninghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10640829930815645105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-22871092611146828022008-10-28T15:33:00.000+00:002008-10-28T15:33:00.000+00:00What can I say, apart from "been there"Lovely post...What can I say, apart from "been there"<BR/>Lovely post, and yeah... ice cream....<BR/><BR/>Take care,<BR/>Vick xVictoriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17143105247534390983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-9470377198747253722008-10-28T14:54:00.000+00:002008-10-28T14:54:00.000+00:00Ice cream. Lots and lots of it.Ice cream. Lots and lots of it.surviving myselfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13421187332033401147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-43319631607440268682008-10-28T14:34:00.000+00:002008-10-28T14:34:00.000+00:00Good post! I like that article :o)Can I have the r...Good post! I like that article :o)<BR/><BR/>Can I have the rest?<BR/><BR/>Sorry it didn't work out, glad it was amicable.<BR/><BR/>And thanks for the tour - tis very very close to where I now work, I may go explore!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30034378.post-44371621604562211982008-10-28T14:20:00.000+00:002008-10-28T14:20:00.000+00:00What a beautiful post! And thanks for the walking ...What a beautiful post! And thanks for the walking tour. Onward through the fog!The Unbearable Banishmenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704208968630911021noreply@blogger.com